Whether you’re having sex with your wife, your boyfriend, your girlfriend, your best friend, someone you met on Tinder a week ago, or no one at all, everyone’s sex lives are different. We all have different preferences, opinions, kinks, and fantasies. But one thing we can all agree on is that sex is fun, and following a routine is basically the opposite of that. A fun way to keep the spark alive? Creating a sex bucket list. While a bucket list should be tailored to you (and possibly your partner), we developed a few ideas to get the ball rolling. Add these to your list or see how many of ours you can check off!
1. Something you never thought you would do but secretly always wanted to try
In an effort to keep this story PG-13 while also giving you all the necessary information to have the best sex life possible, here is where I list all those crazy things you kinda wince at but also do a little “hmmm” at whenever you think about it. Trying those, such as anal sex, group sex, bondage or other BDSM activities, watching porn together, and/or going to a strip club together (go prepared with cash for tips!), is NOT weird. I repeat: sexual activities that are done by a mass amount of people every year aren’t weird. It’s incredibly normal to want to try these things, and that “hmmm” you feel makes you a human with sexual desires. Talk to your partner(s) about them, and go from there.
2. Get a couples massage
Relaxation is a great aphrodisiac if you know what I’m saying. Getting a massage with your partner is a fun and unique way to add a different kind of foreplay to your sex life. The act of going into the room, undressing together, and being in the same space allows your energy and relaxed state to transfer between the two of you. You’ll both go home feeling renewed, and you might just be turned on enough to keep going with each other.
3. Try role-playing
Role-playing can seem intimidating, but if it scares you, there are tons of ways to start small. Try wearing a special lingerie outfit (schoolgirl, police officer, nurse, French maid — typical but very easy to find) to start. From there, you and your partner can create characters together, decide which activities you both enjoy, or even try role-playing in public.
4. Have sex in a new location
You can get as kinky as you want here. Whether it’s at home (sex in the kitchen, in the shower, or on the balcony, for example) or out in public (such as in the car, at a friends’ place, in a pool, or in basically any public bathroom — family size stall recommended), having sex somewhere new is important to change up your routine. Sometimes having sex anywhere but in a bed is exactly what you need.
1. Something you never thought you would do but secretly always wanted to try
In an effort to keep this story PG-13 while also giving you all the necessary information to have the best sex life possible, here is where I list all those crazy things you kinda wince at but also do a little “hmmm” at whenever you think about it. Trying those, such as anal sex, group sex, bondage or other BDSM activities, watching porn together, and/or going to a strip club together (go prepared with cash for tips!), is NOT weird. I repeat: sexual activities that are done by a mass amount of people every year aren’t weird. It’s incredibly normal to want to try these things, and that “hmmm” you feel makes you a human with sexual desires. Talk to your partner(s) about them, and go from there.
2. Get a couples massage
Relaxation is a great aphrodisiac if you know what I’m saying. Getting a massage with your partner is a fun and unique way to add a different kind of foreplay to your sex life. The act of going into the room, undressing together, and being in the same space allows your energy and relaxed state to transfer between the two of you. You’ll both go home feeling renewed, and you might just be turned on enough to keep going with each other.
3. Try role-playing
Role-playing can seem intimidating, but if it scares you, there are tons of ways to start small. Try wearing a special lingerie outfit (schoolgirl, police officer, nurse, French maid — typical but very easy to find) to start. From there, you and your partner can create characters together, decide which activities you both enjoy, or even try role-playing in public.
4. Have sex in a new location
You can get as kinky as you want here. Whether it’s at home (sex in the kitchen, in the shower, or on the balcony, for example) or out in public (such as in the car, at a friends’ place, in a pool, or in basically any public bathroom — family size stall recommended), having sex somewhere new is important to change up your routine. Sometimes having sex anywhere but in a bed is exactly what you need.
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